Not in any kind of kink-shamey way where weird = bad, obvs. What’s a weird thing that makes you horny? Whether you’re looking to sexually sus out a new fling, connect more deeply with your current person, or turn up the heat with a little verbal foreplay, these sexy sex questions are bound to get you and your partner talking (and probably more than *just* talking, if you catch our drift).Ĥ. Hence why we went ahead and came up with 150 (no more, no less!) sexy questions to ask your partner. In short, these Qs hold the key to a whole bunch of super crucial info you should know and understand about a partner in order to co-create the healthy, horny sex life of your dreams. “When you ask questions that lead to meaningful conversations, you’ll better understand not only what your partner is into, but why they may be drawn to specific acts, fantasies, scenarios, and feelings,” says O’Reilly. Not only can sharing sexy questions make it easier to loosen up and start talking ~intimately~, but it can also open the door to bigger (v important!) discussions about boundaries, desires, fantasies, and even sexual health and safety.